Marriage Making

Marriage making is - making a lifetime relationship and entering a bond to live together with each other for life. Marriage is (no doubt) an important landmark in a person's life who wish to take life to the next level, the next generation. It takes marathon efforts to find the right life partner, and another natural quest is to spend a happy marital bliss with the life partner you are marrying. The overall perceptions of the life partner have changed, and expectations from the marriage partner have changed dramatically. Another fact is that in the present time, achieving professional excellence is becoming an equally important parameter of life. So, the methods of perfect marriage-making rules have also changed.

Here, the most significant point is: how to judge the compatibility with the life partner? You need a life partner who is with you in all good and challenging times: be it physical, mental, emotional, professional, or family-related matters. So, how to select the best life partner and what to do for a good marriage making?

Marriage making is not based on predefined/stereotyped mathematical calculations but is much beyond that. Many may ignore conventional words like charts matching for marriage/horoscope matching. But it is quite relevant if you understand this in-depth rather than just surfing to get a matching score and decide to accept or reject a life partner. For this, one needs to understand what marriage matching is and why we should go for marriage matching before we take the final plunge.

Marriage matching

Marriage matching is the matching of compatibility between two marriage aspirants as to how they will react, adapt, adjust and sacrifice for each other in different aspects of life. Don't forget life and relationship before marriage can change 360 Degrees after marriage. Some go for an arranged marriage, and some go for a love marriage, but this classification ends once you are married. The foundation of compatibility between the two partners is the same for both categories. That is where marriage matching plays a role.

It is not that you put the birth details of two in a calculator; check the score. Accept when the score is 18 or above and reject when it is below 18.
Marriage matching starts with the matching score but then reviews the compatibility between the two partners on Karakas of marriage.
Marriage matching means checking the strengths and weaknesses of one partner's chart with the counterbalancing strength/ability of the opposite partner's chart to complement and supplement the same.
Marriage matching rules are different for an arranged marriage and a relationship.
You can not endorse a Marriage matching by performing materialistic rituals/Pooja. It has to be a balancing act between two marriage charts.

I wrote in HT – City/Café on this topic on 28.5.2023 and 03.06.2023

In today's world, many marriages break for reasons ranging from incompatibility to work-related disparities. Checking the compatibility of the two tying the knot through an astrological lens and careful eyes can reduce this phenomenon. Through astrological compatibility, a specialized reading of the marriage-related houses and charts is done to by certain planetary positions.

Through astrological analysis, one gets a guideline for analyzing relationships - and a predictor for the extent of success of the marriage. Through an in-depth examination of the horoscope, an insight into each partner's character, communication style, values and lifestyle can be read and understood. With all factors in mind, an astrologer and, therefore, the couples can make an educated decision about whether or not they are compatible enough for marriage.

Regarding horoscope matching, it's important to realize that relying solely on online software is not enough. While these programs can offer a general idea of compatibility through the Ashtakoot Milan principles, they cannot provide a thorough analysis of all the intricate details involved. To truly understand the dynamics of a relationship, a more in-depth study is necessary, taking into account factors such as planetary positions, Nakshatra compatibility, and more. This is why people should seek the guidance of experienced marriage-astrologer to gain a deeper insight into their horoscopes and their adversities.

A point to ponder into that a couple with a low Guna score (say 4 to 7) can get married, and a marriage may not be compatible with a high Guna match (say 30 or more). Then another dilemma is: Can we marry if the score is below 18. Yes, you can.

Therefore it is essential to have a comprehensive check of the couple's horoscopes to identify any mismatches or differences. It is always wise to look beyond the Guna score and consider other important parameters such as the Astro-vargas , Karakas etc. All these should be taken into consideration for the correct advice.

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Now comes the second aspect of marriage-matching.

Marriage matching is not a precondition for marriage making. Nowadays, many people marry with their choice and live happily forever. This article is not to impress marriage matching mandatory. It replies a very pertinent question here: can we marry if the charts do not match. Yes, I say, one can marry without matching charts. However, in the above article, I have only tried to explain: Advantages of marriage making after marriage-matching. And also, what can happen if the marriage matching is not done as explained above?

I wrote this to explain to avoid taking the marriage matching as a challenge, eyewash, or shortcut to take such a landmark decision of your life. Many may feel like a Pandit expecting some Dakshina to do the marriage matching, but I have no issues with such a thought because I know the relevance of matching charts for marriage. And the probable results that we find otherwise.

I wrote another article in HT City/Café on 04.06.2023

"Marriage rescue through Karma correction"

Couples should be prepared to face challenges, especially in the first few years. Differences in opinions and values may surface when couples become more vulnerable with each other by living together. It is during these times that a couple needs to learn how to navigate personal differences while also finding solutions that work for both parties. But unfortunately couples now live with huge ego and make the smoothened path of marriage difficult for them.

It is when an astrological help can do wonders.

Reading the charts for informed actions is key for balancing out a negative married life. This includes knowledge about natural strengths, weaknesses, emotional needs and communication styles within each person along with those between the couple. A well-read and experienced astrologer can counsel the duo to an extent that the problems can stand mitigated.

An astrologer can read couples' marriage charts and understand how their subconscious thoughts impact and influence behaviours, decisions and their relationship as a whole. This assists them in recognizing points of struggle that may need more conscious effort, care and energy towards understanding one another's feelings. As a result, this makes it easier for communication efforts to be optimized to resolve conflicts.

Couples in such cases normally go in for horoscope matching, which is absolutely not required as they are couples now. Rather they should be going for an astrological consultation which can suggest ways to make the union run. "Karma correction" is a complex and difficult process involving analyzing one's past actions and karmic consequences. However, this process can yield positive results in cases where marital discord is present. By correcting negative karmic patterns and fostering positive energy, individuals can work to improve their relationships and create a more harmonious environment. While it may require significant efforts and self-reflection, the potential benefits of karma correction can be life-changing. It also shows the life after (if) the present relationship does not improve.

One may think of materialistic rituals to save a marriage, but I believe in bringing transparency, restoring confidence and improving the relationship to carry it for life. So, make a difference through Karma correction.

Best marriage matching

So, marriage making for life depends on how perfectly the marriage matching is done. You know about your future life and are confident that you can assess the above compatibility factors, it is good. One can marry without matching the charts. Else, use the methods available to check the parameters required for a good marriage-matching. Read more on advantages of horoscope matching. Many endorse materialistic rituals and generalized remedies to improve married life; I recommend a few steps checked before you finally marry, and if, for any reason, there are issues in married life, learn to improve it through Karma Correct. You can connect with my office for any specific issues on +91 9278555588/9278665588

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