Once you are in a relationship and are firm about getting married to the person of your choice, your first reaction can be: why should we match the horoscopes when we know about each other? Is horoscope matching important in love marriage? These questions could be tickling your mind or compulsions from your family members, but the objective is the same: Is kundli matching necessary in relationship?
With modern times' changing dynamics, I normally commend love affairs turning into successful marital bliss. And also say that all horoscopes can match and all can marry the person of their choice if there is no life threat to each other's life. Over two decades as a marriage astrology expert, I rarely reject partnerships and frequently suggest a karmic balancing for couples where classical astrology predictions fail or reject a proposal. I aim to explore all viable options to strengthen and preserve relationships. Therefore, it's rare for me to outright reject partnerships out of hand.
Forget the orthodox words like horoscope matching/kundli matching or Gun Milan etc. Focus on the compatibility factor between you and your life partner, which is the only foundation for marital bliss. A wedding-planning couple should not immediately reject the idea of marriage just because their horoscopes don't seem to match. Instead, they should ask an astrologer how their horoscopes are compatible and how this connection can be worked on for a successful union. Therefore, understanding the nuances between the two charts is essential when making such important life decisions. This compatibility check is an important guide in helping the couple assess any areas where their relationship may need some extra attention, and together, they can grow from any challenges faced. The final goal is to know: if you are marrying the best life partner. I will explain it now from a commoner's mind.
Are you marrying the best life partner
There can be two possibilities when there is a relationship: You decide not to marry due to low compatibility (non-matching of charts) or other family /social reasons. You might be missing your best life partner. Or you marry a person against many odds who is not compatible to you. You run to an astrologer or counsellor to make grounds to fight these odds. You are bent upon marrying that person and ready to perform any remedies. Both ways, you are erring in your decision. Forget what an astrologer or marriage counsellor will say; read from a commoner's viewpoint.
Many young couples who long to be together often misconceive that a horoscope matching is something that stands in the way of their union. On the contrary, these readings provide insight into any potential areas of difficulty and what needs to be adjusted by each partner for their partnership to succeed. Provided you get these readings from someone who knows the job of checking compatibility in context with the dynamics of modern times. Read how a score of 12 out of 36 can be a good match and 26 out of 36 may not be a good match on Can we marry if the matching score is below 18.
Investing energy into an astrological compatibility conversation can be a powerful tool to help inform important decisions and manage expectations within relationships. It is possible for couples to find harmony in spite of their seemingly incompatible horoscopes by understanding basic planetary dynamics as well as relationship karma—the habits each person brings from past life experiences that can affect the current interactions between them. Together they can gain insights on how to create balance and work through inevitable issues that arise along with their partnership.
How to avoid error in making marriage decision
Those about to take the plunge and enter the world of marriage must bear in mind how dramatically things can be altered. Many might find themselves facing somebody completely different from their betrothed, who had seemed so familiar prior to exchanging vows. This transformation could even leave them questioning if they truly know the person at all anymore.
For instance, an individual with many positive attributes such as ambition, courage, strength, audacity, and loyalty combined with vibrant energy can end up being overbearing, impetuous, and unrestrained after marriage. A courageous and bold person gets transformed into an attention seeker. The dynamism part of the person gets converted to being impatient. The person remains the same, yet the judging eyes change their perspective. Hence, the dynamics between a husband and wife completely transform upon tying the knot. The love they share reaches an entirely different level. They no longer are the same two people who had surprised each other before marriage.
Remedial matching of horoscopes is a great way to address the classical astrological issues of non-matching between couples. Looking at both individuals' charts more closely and understanding their unique qualities allows one to identify potential problems before they arise in the relationship. Through effective analysis, it is possible to forecast when these differences may crop up for them to be properly addressed within the relationship. Remedial matching provides valuable insight into how two people's stars interact with each other over time. Read more how a pre-marriage counselling can help you. After reading this, think of any couple having troubled marriage, you will find the reasons cannot be beyond what is explained.
It is important to note that a strong bond between two individuals will remain unaffected by remedial matching. The remedial matching helps in understanding when differences or strains occur in the relationship; it can help to discover what astrological energies are at play and implement steps towards mitigating their effects. For example, suppose one partner's chart suggests they may be prone to negative behaviors or communication issues with their spouse. In that case, both partners can take proactive actions such as counseling or learning more peaceful means of communication together. By taking these preventative measures ahead of time the intending partners can enter into a wedlock.
Mind you, I do not suggest Pooja, stones, or hefty rituals to match the compatibility and recommend a marriage that is based on conditions and materialistic remedies. But I suggest Karmic correction counselling. You should meet an astrologer to understand all nuances between you and your partner before marrying instead of running to ask for remedies to bridge this compatibility gap. You come to me or meet any other good marriage astrologer; just understand what a perfect horoscope matching is? For any specific readings, connect with my office at +919278555588/9278665588.