What I always tell them is that I'm not rejecting the actor; I'm only looking for my character. Sometimes, the actor is really good, but may not be right for my film. But then, saying no is still difficult because they come with a lot of hope and expectation. I reject more than I select, but I always tell them, it’s not about your performance. Sometimes, if they're really good, I always make sure that I cast them in another film or show, but that's my job.
It’s especially difficult to say no to kids, because they're very sensitive. Saying no to the other two kids who were shortlisted for Bajrangi Bhaijaan and Chillar Party was the toughest thing. But I always make sure I offer them something else when I can. I am glad I could offer Brahmastra (2022) to one of the kids who was rejected for Munni’s role in Bajrangi Bhaijaan.
To adults, it’s easy to say that rejection is part of your life, but it’s really hard to say that to a child.
For Dangal, we auditioned more than 12,000 kids, and then shortlisted 400 girls, then 200, then a 100, then 60, then 40, then 20, then 10, then eight, and then the final four. The process took one and a half years. I also met Mrunal Thakur in the Dangal audition and finally gave her Super 30. You know, you tend to remember people because of their performance in an audition, even if they don’t get the part.
But the best part about the Dangal audition was that Aamir (Khan) was present for every single audition, and was very supportive. He auditioned with every single girl personally and explained to them that it was all part of the process. “We will all go through the same process,” he said to them.