When we already know the other is to blame, how do we let go of paranoia and revenge? A monk Kanwar talks to offers the philosophical answers he has long-sought. How can he be certain of him being in the absolute right? Thus begins a dislodging of moral positions, an opening up of the space to relativities. It’s not just about forgiveness, but a willingness to engage with context and circumstance beyond ultimate consequences. At the same time, Kanwar underlines wrestling with non-violence as an ideological, spiritual necessity. We cannot let ourselves be caught in settling scores. To do so only keeps the cycle of unrest going. The monk proposes an instability of one’s own stance, examining beliefs we hold as concrete. “To be non-violent is not to withdraw but to actively intervene,” he gently suggests. Kanwar is startled, confused. How can active intervention strike attention without force? The monk emphasizes not returning pain with pain. There’s a need to resolve trauma from Partition massacres with due bloodletting. But this will only lead to a moral abyss.