Outlook-Moods Sex SurveyMen Can Be From VenusIn the bedroom and the boardroom, in the kitchen and with kids, the new AlphaMale is desirable, not dominating, attentive, not arrogant. Hes a buddy-likehusband, mother-like father, soulmate and sex partner. Sexually open-minded,professionally adaptive, collectively cool. The Outlook-Moods-Cfore survey, done in 14metros and mini-metros, shows manhood can now be defined as mens liberation frompatriarchy. Call it MaleLib 2006.
Men Can Be From Venus
An <i >Outlook-Moods-Cfore</i> survey maps the new Indian male: He is as at ease at home as he is at workspace. An equal, and not a bully in relationships.
Questions to MEN |
What is more important in your life: sex or the woman?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Sex
26
22
29
The woman
24
26
22
Both equally important
50
52
49
93% men in Hyderabad agreed that there should be equal sexual pleasure for men and women, though almost 20% disagreed in Amritsar. And while 56% in Chennai said they would be more turned on if the woman initiated sex, in Surat only 34% said yes.
Should there be equal pleasure for men and women in a sexual relationship?
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
85
88
83
No
15
12
17
Would you be more turned on if a woman initiated sex?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
44
50
38
No
24
21
28
Would make no diff
32
29
34
Would it hurt your male ego if your partner taught you about sexual performance and pleasure?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
17
12
21
No
53
57
49
Maybe
16
19
13
Dont know/ cant say
14
12
17
Do you still think it is important for girls to be virgins when they get married, or have your views changed recently?
Overall
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Metros
Other Cities
Changed recently
31
40
22
Still the same
69
60
78
Have you ever met women who only want sex but dont insist on commitment?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Never
56
48
65
One or two
33
37
29
Quite a few
9
12
5
All the time
2
3
1
Did you receive or give oral sex in the last one year?
Overall
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Metros
Other Cities
Only received
19
22
16
Only gave
11
12
10
Both received and gave
26
30
21
Didnt engage in oral sex at all
44
36
53
Do you enjoy sex with a submissive woman or an equally passionate one?
Overall
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Metros
Other Cities
Submissive
24
18
30
Passionate
76
82
70
Have you ever been used by women who slept with you only to get ahead in career?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Never
50
45
57
Once
29
29
28
Sometimes
17
21
13
Quite few times
4
5
2
32% in Bangalore felt intelligence was the most appealing factor in a woman. Less than half thought so in Surat. 66% of Suratwallahs said a beautiful woman was the most appealing, while only 31% of Delhi men agreed. For them, her attitude was more vital.
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What do you find most appealing in a woman?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Her attitude
26
30
22
Her intelligence
19
21
17
Her power
6
7
5
Her beauty
49
42
56
What would you do if your wife/girlfriend told you that you are a boring sexual partner?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Never talk to her again
14
9
18
Apologise and try to think of a solution
16
15
17
Go to a sexologist for help
10
13
8
Ask her why she feels so and how you could jointly change it
60
63
57
Almost 60% in Delhi solicited the services of sex workers while only 34% visited brothels in Lucknow. In Mumbai too 55% men paid for sex. In this tinsel town, 28% men had a same-sex experience, but into the Deccan, in Vijayawada, only half of those did so.
Did you solicit sex workers in the last one year? | |||
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Metros
Other Cities
Yes
42
46
37
No
58
54
63
Do you think intelligent women are bad lovers?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
22
18
26
No
38
36
41
Better lovers
40
46
33
What is your favourite sexual enhancer?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Drugs
5
7
2
Pornography
39
37
41
Dirty talk
15
12
17
Role-playing
5
9
1
Dont use any
36
35
39
Did you have a same-sex experience in the last year?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
20
23
16
No
80
77
84
Do you like having sexual relationships with women in positions of power?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
25
28
22
No
30
25
35
Being powerful doesnt matter
45
47
43
Did you ever have virtual sex (via internet etc)?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
35
42
27
No
65
58
73
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Virginity, commitment-phobia, pornography and reluctance towards oral sex still dominate womens sexual confessions about men. But whats undeniably changing is the belief of both sexes in the equality of the new, emerging equations.
Do men still want virgin brides or have they changed?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Still the same
58
47
66
Have changed
23
30
15
Cant say
19
23
19
Does your spouse take you for granted?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
61
54
69
No
39
46
31
Do you like to be with men who do not want to commit?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
26
31
20
No
74
69
80
Is your husband/boyfriend concerned about your sexual satisfaction?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
49
52
47
No
51
48
53
Does your husband/ boyfriend spend a lot of time and money on his appearance?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
30
39
22
No
70
61
78
37% of Delhi women wanted to be with men who were not ready to commit but only 14% of Surat women liked such men. 44% women in Mumbai felt their husbands would be tolerant of their friendship with other men, but only 12% in Amritsar felt the same.
Is your husband/boyfriend tolerant about your friendship with other men?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
29
39
18
No
71
61
82
Does your spouse consult you on all financial decisions for the family?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
72
76
68
No
28
24
32
Does your husband/ boyfriend change diapers and feed the children while you are away? (Only respondents with kids)
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Always
10
12
7
Sometimes
79
80
77
Never
11
8
16
Did your spouse insist that you change your last name to his after marriage?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
60
52
67
No
40
48
33
Does your husband give you oral sex?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
45
51
39
No
55
49
61
How often does your husband/boyfriend share the housework with you?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Very often
14
21
8
Sometimes
62
59
63
Rarely
16
13
21
Never
8
7
8
45% women in Delhi suspected that their husbands
were cheating on them. Only 7% in Vijayawada and 15%
in Amritsar felt their husbands were straying.
Do you get the feeling that sometimes your man is fantasising about someone else while having sex?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
40
38
41
No
60
62
59
Do you think all household expenditure should be borne by the man even if wife is working?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
52
46
58
No
48
54
42
Is your husband/boyfriend okay with you supporting your parents?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
53
59
47
No
47
41
53
In the last one year, have you ever suspected that your husband has been cheating on you?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
28
37
20
No
72
63
80
Does your husband/ boyfriend use sexual enhancers?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
37
40
35
No
63
60
65
Do you really believe in equal relationships between women and men or you think its just media hype?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes, I believe in it totally
54
61
45
Well, things are changing
25
22
28
I dont think equality exists
14
11
16
Media has just created this
7
6
11
Would your husband be okay if you frequently travelled on work for long periods?
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Yes
39
45
32
No
61
55
68
What is your favourite sexual enhancer? (% of those who said they use enhancers)
Overall
Metros
Other Cities
Drugs
11
13
8
Pornography
52
43
60
Dirty talk
29
32
26
Role-playing
8
12
6
Methodology
Research organisation Cfore conducted the survey between November 7-22 in Delhi, Mumbai, Calcutta, Chennai, Bangalore, Hyderabad, Lucknow, Amritsar, Patna, Cuttack, Vijayawada, Madurai, Surat and Nasik. A statistically selected sample of 2,386 men and 914 women were interviewed from sec A and sec B category in the age group of 25-40. The sexual attitudes survey was conducted separately where the respondents were ensured anonymity. The respondents were selected using street corner sampling method, then given a questionnaire which they could drop in a ballot box.
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