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Kiss In The Kasbah

Sex is blooming in our'small cities', and it's all thanks to His grace.

OUTLOOK-MOODS SEX SURVEY

Kiss In The Kasbah
Sex is blooming in our ‘small cities’, and it’s all thanks toHis grace.

How old were you when you first had sex?

(Base: 842 men who are willing to respond)

14-15 years
4
16-18 years
14
19-22 years
18
23-25 years
17
26-29 years
15
30-34 years
55

Between you and your partner, who usually initiates sex?

Base: 614 men

Both
42
Me
45
Partner
13

Base: 493 women

Both
39
Me
5
Partner
56

Have you ever had casual sex?

(Base: 614 men)

No
68
Yes
32
No response
1

Have you ever given oral sex to your partner?

Base: 614 men

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No
68
Yes
31
No response
1

Base: 493 women

No
69
Yes
31

68% men feel sexual satisfaction is most important for
a happy marriage



What is the most important attribute in a person of the opposite sex for you to feel attracted towards her?

(Base: 842 men)

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Good nature
33
Beautiful face
23
Good figure
15
Intelligence
15
Pleasing personality
12
Good height
2

What do you do to look good?

(Base: 842 men)

Go for walks/exercise
50
Go to a beauty parlour
51
Diet in balance
41
Use personal care products
26
Gym
20
Home treatments
7

How often do you visit a beauty parlour?

(Base: 430 men who visit the parlour)

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Once a week
15
2-3 times a month
17
Once a month
45
Once in 2-3 months
11
Once in 6 months
3
Less often
8
No response
1

Men and women in western india admitted to the highest frequency of sexual relations; about 2.9 times (men) and 2.5 times (women) a week.


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Do people in your community or social circle talk freely about sex/sexual habits?

(Base: 842 men)

Yes
40
No
51
Don't know/Can't say
9

How important is it for you that your partner is a virgin at the time of marriage?

(Base: 842 men)

Very important
69
Somewhat important
12
Not at all important
9
Don't know/Can't say
10

How open are you to the idea of having sexual relations with a person of the same sex?

(Base: 842 men)

Not at all open
51
Somewhat open
16
Completely open
19
Don't know/Can't say
14

Do you know of anyone in your social circle who is in a physical relationship with a person within the family other than the spouse?

(Base: 842 respondents)

No
80
Yes
20

How was the person related?

(Base: 176 respondents or 20 per cent who said yes)

Sister-in-law
30
Cousin
18
Sibling
16
Brother-in-law
12

North Indian men had their first sexual encounter at an average age of 21 years. South Indians, on average, waited a little longer, till 24.

Are you in favour of pre-marital sex?
(Base: 842 men)
No
70
Yes
30

What do people in your social circle usually do when they want to have sex?

(Base: 437 married men)

Have sex with spouse/partner
43
Have an affair
28
Buy sex
15
Masturbate
9
Watch pornography
7
Buy sex toys
1

(Base: 405 unmarried men)

Sex with girlfriend
30
Have an affair
28
Buy sex
16
Masturbate
19
Watch pornography
11
Buy sex toys
1

How important is sexual satisfaction for a happy marriage?
(Base: 614 men)
Very important
68
Somewhat important
22
Not at all important
7
No response
3

29% men across india ranked sex as the most important thing in their lives, even more than family support or their own house.


Who insists on the use of contraceptives when you have sex with your partner?

(Base: 614 men)

I use on my own
34
Mutual decision
46
My partner insists
18
No response
2

(Base: 493 women)

I insist
16
Mutual decision
52
My partner uses on his own
22
No response
10

Do you believe it is a man's right to have sex with his wife?

Base: 614 men

Yes
75
No
15
No response
1
Don’t know/Can’t say
9

Base: 845 women

Yes
75
No
12
No response
1
Don’t know/Can’t say
12

30% men from north india said their own pleasure was more important to them than their partner’s.


Methodology
The survey was conducted by GfK Mode in eight cities across the country, with two cities selected from each zone. From each city, some 100 males and 100 females in the 20-45 year age group were selected and interviewed with the help of a close-ended questionnaire.
Zones
City 1
City 2
North
Ludhiana
Meerut
West
Rajkot
Nagpur
East
Darjeeling
Cuttack
South
Pondicherry
Coimbatore
The respondents were chosen with the help of a recruitment questionnaire to form a widely representative sample. The anonymity of all respondents was strictly maintained. Interviews were conducted at a neutral venue, with male and female respondents interviewed separately, by male/female investigators respectively. Since there is overlap, percentage figures may not add up to 100.

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