When I used to drive in Goa, my policy was never to pick up a ringing mobile unless I edged the car to the side. Buteven my own friends admit that they catch up with others while driving. Of course they say they are on "handsfree". But my question is: "Are your minds free?" Because you need it to negotiate your way throughtraffic. My next question: "Before the mobile, didn't you wait to get home or to the office to use the landline so you could "touch base" with friends? So where's the fire now?"
Dr Ravi Samuel, who does cognitive therapy for his patients at his T'Nagar clinic, says increasingly gadgets like the mobilephones and PCs ( because of the Internet) are creating loneliness among families. Taking the office home was an expression earlier, now it is a reality. The mobile phone is so intrusive that like the ad jingle it follows you everywhere you go.
Intel Inside, Idiot Outside
Many say that Chennai is the most livable of all the metros. In Mumbai, it takes long to get from Point A to B because of distances and bottlenecks on the road, Bangalore is going the Mumbai way although distances are not so vast, but in Chennai the newly-inaugurated flyovers are doing the trick even though most sane people will not get onto the roads between 6 p.m. and 8 p.m. But for how long? Already, Tamil Nadu's vehicle population at one crore, makes it No: 2 in the country. And when it comes to two-wheelers, the state is the undisputed king having 82.05 lakh motorcyles and scooters. What's more, 5,800 new vehicles are being added everyday.
Little wonder that Chennai's accident rate has gone up by 74 per cent between 1996 and 2007. It has overtaken Delhi in the number of accidents recording 3.59 per thousand vehicles. And more shockingly,it has more fatalities per thousand at .47 whereas Delhi's statistic is 0.40. And with such a high population of two wheelers,it is no surprise that they were involved in the largest number of fatal accidents.
Are Women Better Drivers?
If a car stalls on the road, if it is going too slow, if it turns around suddenly on the road, you can be sure it's a woman behind the wheel. I'm not saying that--butmany men do. Have you known a man stopping and asking a woman directions? But for all those who bash women drivers, here's a news flash--women have better traffic sense. In 2005, 850 men died and 5,697 were injured as compared to 205 women who died and 1,271 injured in road accidents. In 2006, 1,166 men died on the road as compared to 170 women and 5,467 men suffered injuries in accidents as compared to 1,255 women. Even if one factors in that men drivers and riders outnumber women, what the statistic shows is that the number of women who died in accidents declined whereas the number of men who met theirmaker went up. So women have better sense QED.
Nobody's Child
This week a DNA test had to be done to resolve the tussle between two families fighting over a male baby while there was a female baby nobody wanted. We might all sit in judgement about the attitude that led to the fight over whose wife delivered a girl but was given a boy because of RSRM maternity hospital's incompetence in tagging the mothers properly, but the truth is that even in educated, wealthy families the attitude is the same. I know of many women who complain that husbands/ mothers-in-law did not come to see them because they had delivered girl babies.Some months ago, a three-month old girl was abandoned in a cinema hall in Coimbatore--the mother handed over the child during the interval to a couple sitting next to her but never returned--and she was taken charge of by Anbu Illam, an NGO, which handed her over to the Peace Home atKalapatti.