A lot of men accused of sexual harassment have, in their defence, said they don’t remember. Women remember. Men don’t. For them, there seems to be no concept of mind, body, and soul when they are with a woman. There is just the concept of body. They only etch the experience in terms of woman’s body, and don’t recognise her as a full person or acknowledge her dignity.
There is another set of men who claim they were under the influence of alcohol when the incident happened. In the same state, however, they are able to fully recognise a woman, identify her breasts, butt, and even notice her earrings. When their sexual senses and cognitive abilities are completely alert and active, they can’t claim to not be in their senses. If you’re too drunk, go pass out on the couch. Alcohol can’t be your defence and it’s absolutely ridiculous to try and put the cloak of victimhood.