There are still enough men about, of course. The trouble is finding the right man. The New Age man is notable for his rarity. And in northwest London where Indians abound, there are signs all round that men are getting off women, through divorce or otherwise. Just a look inside those scores of Indian clubs that have sprung up all around says all. Panthers, the Piano Bar, Seventh Heaven, Malibu, Regency... One after another is full of Indian men. They dont come with women and dont seem particularly to go for women either. They feel like clubs for the retired hurt, for a species in bitter retreat. That searching keenness seems to be fading from the male eye. These arent guys, theyre fallen guys.