Speaking of booze, my uncle, who has lived all his life in Calicut and shares a bittersweet bond with the place, complains that jobs are scarce in Kerala. “But you’ll be sure to find a liquor store at every corner,” he says. Alcoholics rejoice. But job-hunters, for apparent reasons, migrate to other cities, other continents. My uncle’s son-in-law, a Malayalee banker brought up in Chennai, works in the UK. Hearing him and his wife, my cousin, speak in English to their school-going kids, my mother rolls her eyes. The kids talk to Queen’s English, and maintain a stiff upper lip when my mother suggests they try talking in Malayalam. The language feels foreign to them. The words were too unwieldy for their immigrant tongues.