Call it a happy coincidence or a destined connection, both Naseeruddin Shah and Goutam Ghose turn 75 this year. While the actor celebrates his birthday today, his Paar (1984) director will mark his 75th four days later. Ghose points out that Shah, Shabana Azmi, Om Puri, Smita Patil—actors he has worked with—and even his director-friend Ketan Mehta, are around the same age, give or take a few years. “We grew up together, struggling to make something meaningful in the creative medium. Naseer, of course, is the closest. He’s my big brother, bada bhai, by four days,” he guffaws.