Just a year into his marriage to his college sweetheart and girlfriend of three years, the employee of a Calcutta bank asked for a divorce. The reason? “She was a neatness freak,” shudders the 23-year-old. Soon after they got hitched, he found that his house-proud bride not just nagged him about keeping the house tidy, but took ‘cleanliness’ to absurd levels, spending most of her time at home dusting, sweeping or doing laundry. It was as though she was being driven by an invisible force. “The ritual before we made love was the most off-putting. We had to remove our clothes, fold it up in perfect piles and place it on the shelf in the closet. It consumed all my passion. I decided I simply could not deal with it,” says the distraught man.
