I had a great relationship with my first serious boyfriend and I was totally and madly in love. He treated me like a princess – and was attentive, loving and everything a woman could ask for. However, after three years together, I got very bored and was occasionally even annoyed by him, sexually and emotionally and I began to feel attracted to another guy. As that attraction didn’t fade, I split up with my boyfriend and it completely broke his heart. And mine, somewhere. But I felt I was making the only decision possible because I wasn’t truly satisfied in the relationship at the time, and used to feel extremely stifled. Staying with the same guy didn’t make sense to me. Six months later, I am still dating the guy I was attracted to. I like him a lot and he’s really wonderful. But I still harbor strong feels towards my ex, who is shattered and hasn’t moved on at all. He told me he still loves me the same way he did, which made me feel terribly guilty and just awful for the way I insensitively dumped him. I do miss him occasionally, and the tenderness with which he used to make love and I can honestly picture a future with him, more than my current boyfriend. Why can’t I let go? Does it mean we are meant to be together if we both feel so passionately about each other six months later? I don’t want to hurt my current boyfriend and be dumping him also, and I am happy when I’m with him. Could I be in love with two people? Does that make me an emotional slut?