If such confidence is unfamiliar territory for Sumitra, it doesn’t show. Except when she narrates the story of her life. “I was born into a poor Dalit family, with eight siblings, and we used to make incense sticks for a living. Ever since I can remember, I felt like a girl, taking particular interest in household work, unlike my brothers. I got my sex change operation done when I was 13. Though my mother supported me, my brothers locked her up and threw me out of the house, even as I was recovering from my surgery. I slept on the road for three days, starving.” A friend took her in, and she made her living as a sex worker in Bangalore. “Harassment from people on the street, the men I had sex with, was routine. I cried myself to sleep every night. Alcohol helped ease some of the pain.” Now 35, Sumitra has started taking on small projects as an independent social worker, helping the homeless, the HIV-infected and others in the transgender community. “My effort is to emphasise the lack of opportunities and education for the transgender community. Why do they mostly end up doing sex work or begging? They are talented too, and can make a mark in the arts—dance, painting, music—if given a chance. The government needs to pay attention to our cause, offer us jobs,” she says.