Marriage is an integral association between man and woman, essential for social acceptance. It stems from the necessity of man's instinctive disposition towards companionship and procreation.
Ideally speaking, marriage is a once in a lifetime bond. Therefore, the selection of a partner should be made with utmost care.
Compatibility between the couple is key to sustaining a prosperous and happy marital relationship. It is not limited to similarities of likes, dislikes, cultural lifestyles and common life/career goals. The statistics of failed marriages are on an all-time high and climbing. It is baffling, that the reasons for most estranged couples are logically inexplicable and highly irrational.
Then what went wrong? Just as oil and water don't mix, the science of numbers needs to be in balance and harmony.
If the numbers of boy and girl are compatible, their life together shall be smooth & comfortable, and if the numbers are not compatible, then their journey will be arduous and trying. Eventually leading to a divorce.
The following considerations are to be made while calculating the compatibility of boy and girl, who are going to embark on the journey of marriage: -
Their Name number should vibrate harmoniously and be friendly.
Their Psychic number should vibrate harmoniously with each other and be friendly.
Their Destiny number should vibrate harmoniously with each other and be friendly.
The date of marriage/engagement, which is finalized & selected, should be friendly to the Destiny number of the boy as well as of the girl.
After marriage, if the girl drops her surname and adopts the boy's surname, then again compatibility of the name should be checked, whether it continues to vibrate harmoniously with the husband's name or not.
In case the change of name after marriage becomes anti to boy's name number, then girl's name without dropping her surname and adding the surname of the boy should be checked for harmonious vibration with the husband's name or not. If still, it is vibrating anti, then it is better to keep her name, which was before marriage, which was compatible with the boy's name.
The house number of the boy, where the girl is going to stay after marriage, should also harmoniously vibrate with her Destiny number.
The Chronological age number of both boy and girl should also be compatible with their Destiny number at the time of marriage.
Let us take a hypothetical example to understand. There is a boy, whose name is
Kunaal Chopra and his date of birth is 16th December 1994, staying at D-41, Greater Kailash, New Delhi, intends to get married to a girl whose name is Rashmi Varma, her date of birth is 23rd March 1996. They decided to get married on 21st February 2020.
1. Now Name Number of Kunaal Chopra and Rashmi Varma are:
K U N A A L C H O P R A
2 6 5 1 1 3 3 5 7 8 2 1
= 18 = 9 = 26 = 8
9+8 = 17 = 8
R A S H M I V A R M A
2 1 3 5 4 1 6 1 2 4 1
= 16 = 7 14 = 5
7 + 5 = 12 = 3
Now, since the Name number of Kunaal Chopra is 8 and Rashmi Varma is 3 and 8 & 3 are friendly to each other. Therefore they can go for the marriage.
The Psychic number of Kunaal is 7 (1+6) (Date of birth) and the Psychic number of Rashmi is 5(2+3), which are also friendly with each. Hence compatibility will be there in day to day life after marriage.
Next, comes the Destiny number. The Destiny number of Kunaal is 6 (total of Date
+ Month + Year = 1+6+1+2+1+9+9+4 = 33 =6) and Destiny number of Rashmi is 6 (2+3+3+1+9+9+6 = 33 = 6). The destiny of each other is anti to each, hence not compatible.
Next is the date of marriage, which is finalized is 21st February 2020. Now, if you see the date of the marriage is 3(2+1), which is friendly with a Destiny number of Kunaal, which is 6 as well as with Rashmi, whose Destiny number is also 6. Hence, the date of marriage is good.
The Name number of Rashmi after marriage, dropping her surname Varma and adopting the CHOPRA surname of her husband will be
R A S H M I C H O P R A
2 1 3 5 4 1 3 5 7 8 2 1
= 16 = 7 = 26 = 8
7+8 = 15 = 6
The name number of Rashmi Chopra will be 6, and it vibrates nicely with Kunaal name number, which is 8. Hence she can change her name and can adopt her husband's surname.
6. Now, suppose Rashmi wants to keep her surname also along with adding the surname of husband, then her name number will become
R A S H M I V A R M A C H O P R A
2 1 3 5 4 1 6 1 2 4 1 3 5 7 8 2 1
= 16 = 7 = 14 = 5 = 26 = 8
7 + 5 + 8= 20 = 2
The name number of Rashmi Varma Chopra will be 2 and again vibrate nicely with the name number Kunaal, which is 8. Hence she can choose this option also of keeping her surname also along with adding the surname of her husband.
Next comes the address, where she will stay after marriage is D-41, and its number comes to 4+4+1 = 9, and this number is also friendly with her Destiny number, i.e. 6. So, the house is good for her.
The Chronological age of Kunnal Chopra at the time of marriage will be 26 (21st
February, 2020 - 16th December, 1994 = 25+ = 26 = 8) which is compatible with his
Destiny number 6. Chronological age of Rashmi Varma will be 24 (21st February, 2020 – 23rd March, 1996 = 23+ = 24 = 6) which is not compatible with her Destiny number 6.
So, from this, we can see that the Destiny number of both, the boy and girl are anti to each other and the period of the girl's marriage is not a lucky period for her, rest all other parameters are friendly. Hence, marriage can be finalized and, to a large extent, should be successful.
The happiness and welfare of our loved ones is the priority. The science of numerology helps us prepare ourselves by implementing corrective measures to navigate potentially disruptive energies in life's path. A calculated decision will avert a lifetime of pain and disharmony.