POSTED BY Outlook Web Desk ON Apr 29, 2015 AT 22:03 IST ,  Edited At: Apr 29, 2015 22:03 IST

An Oxford University student allegedly raped near her family's home in north London earlier this month has struck back with an open letter to her attacker in which she refuses to change her behaviour or to become a victim.

20-year-old Ione Wells waived her right to anonymity with 'A Letter to my Assaulter', saying that she refuses to change her behaviour or to become a victim.

She said that her unnamed assailant, who has been charged with serious sexual assault, had not shaken her faith in community and that there were more good people than bad in the world.

She wrote in the university's 'Cherwell' student newspaper to launch its #NotGuilty campaign, which aims to emphasise that assault is never a product of the victim, their choices, their clothing or their neighbourhood.

Full text of the open letter:

cannot address this letter to you, because I do not know your name.

I only know that you have just been charged with serious sexual assault and prolonged attack of a violent nature.

And I have one question.

When you were caught on CCTV following me through my own neighbourhood from the Tube. When you waited until I was on my own street to approach me. When you clapped your hand around my face until I could not breathe. When you pushed me to my knees until my face bled. When I wrestled with your hand just enough so that I could scream.

When you dragged me by my hair, and when you smashed my head against the pavement and told me to stop screaming for help. When my neighbour saw you from her window and shouted at you, and you looked her in the eye and carried on kicking me in the back and neck.

When you tore my bra in half from the sheer force with which you grabbed my breast. When you didn’t reach once for my belongings because you wanted my body. When you failed to have my body because all my neighbours and family came out, and you saw them face-to-face.

When CCTV caught you running away and then following another woman twenty minutes later, from the same station, before you were arrested. When I was in the police station until 5am, while you were four floors below me in custody. When I had to hand over my clothes and photographs of the marks and cuts on my naked body to forensic teams.

Did you ever think of the people in your life?

I don’t know who the people in your life are. I don’t know anything about you.

But I do know this: you did not just attack me that night. 

I am a daughter. I am a friend. I am a girlfriend. I am a pupil. I am a cousin. I am a niece. I am a neighbour. I am the employee who served everyone down the road coffee in the café under the railway.

All the people who form those relations to me make up my community and you assaulted every single one of them. You violated the truth that I will never cease to fight for and which all of those people represent: that there are infinitely more good people in the world than bad.

This letter is not really for you at all, but for all the victims of attempted or perpetrated serious sexual assault and every member of their communities.

I’m sure you remember the 7/7 bombings. I’m also sure you’ll remember how the terrorists did not win, because the whole community of London got back on the Tube the next day. You’ve carried out your attack, but now I’m getting back on my Tube.

My community will not feel we are unsafe walking back home after dark. We will get on the last train home and we will walk up our streets alone, because we will not submit to the idea that we are putting ourselves in danger in doing so.

We will continue to come together, like an army, when any member of our community is threatened.

This is a fight you will not win.

Community is a force we all underestimate. We get our papers every day from the same newsagents, we wave to the same woman walking her dog in the park, we sit next to the same commuters each day.

Every individual we know and care about may take up no more than a few seconds of each day, but they make up a huge proportion of our lives. Somebody even once told me that, however unfamiliar they appear, the faces of our dreams are always faces we have seen before.

Our community is embedded in our psyche. You, my attacker, have not proved any weakness in me, or my actions, but only demonstrated the solidarity of humanity.

As you sit awaiting trial, I hope that you do not just think about what you have done. I hope you think about community. Your community – even if you can’t see it around you every day. It is there. It is everywhere.

You underestimated mine. Or should I say ours? I could say something along the lines of, ‘Imagine if it had been a member of your community,’ but instead let me say this.

There are no boundaries to community; there are only exceptions, and you are one of them.

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POSTED BY Outlook Web Desk ON Apr 29, 2015 AT 22:03 IST, Edited At: Apr 29, 2015 22:03 IST
POSTED BY Outlook Web Desk ON Apr 25, 2015 AT 15:00 IST ,  Edited At: Apr 25, 2015 15:00 IST

Christopher Alan Bayly, an eminent historian who refused to recognise traditional boundaries to his discipline and once described as the "guru" of global historians died of a heart attack in Chicago. He was 69 years old.

Professor Bayly began his career as a historian of India while a graduate student at Oxford under Professor Jack Gallagher. In his DPhil, later published as The Local Roots of Indian Politics: Allahabad, 1880-1920 (1975), he described two emerging schools of nationalism which would come to dominate Indian politics – the Hindu nationalism of Madan Mohan Malaviya and Nehru’s western-style nationalism.

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POSTED BY Outlook Web Desk ON Apr 25, 2015 AT 15:00 IST, Edited At: Apr 25, 2015 15:00 IST
POSTED BY Outlook Web Desk ON Apr 24, 2015 AT 21:04 IST ,  Edited At: Apr 24, 2015 21:04 IST

Britain's Conservative Party, in a pretty much desperate attempt to woo the ever increasing India-origin voters in the run up to the May 7 general elections has come up with a piece offering. A song in Hindi. 

Commissioned by a group that calls itself the 'Conservative friends of India', the song called 'Neela Hai Aasma' features Cameron doing all sorts of "India" things, which needless to say wreak a little of cultural appropriation, against a very blue London sky, so unnaturally blue that the top part of Big Ben appears blue as well.

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POSTED BY Outlook Web Desk ON Apr 24, 2015 AT 21:04 IST, Edited At: Apr 24, 2015 21:04 IST
POSTED BY Freya Dasgupta ON Jul 10, 2013 AT 16:40 IST ,  Edited At: Jul 10, 2013 16:40 IST

Shortly after the Wimbledon women's final match on Saturday, BBC presenter John Inverdale demonstrated how the world of sports isn't free from sexism. As Marion Bartoli of France defeated Germany's Sabine Lisicki to become the Wimbledon Champion on what she termed as the greatest day of her life, Inverdale suggested on Radio 5 Live that the French player was "never going to be a looker".

Upon clinching the title, Bartoli made a dash to the players' box where she hugged her father, with whom she shares a very intimate relationship, him being her first coach who gave up his medical profession to start training her as a tennis player when she was only 6. This is when Inverdale decided to enlighten his listeners with a little insight on Bartoli's childhood as imagined by him: "Do you think Bartoli's dad told her when she was little: 'You're never going to be a looker, you'll never be a Sharapova, so you have to be scrappy and fight'?

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POSTED BY Freya Dasgupta ON Jul 10, 2013 AT 16:40 IST, Edited At: Jul 10, 2013 16:40 IST
POSTED BY Buzz ON Apr 08, 2013 AT 23:23 IST ,  Edited At: Apr 08, 2013 23:23 IST

The Iron Lady managed to remain divisive in her death as well, just as she was in her prime during her primeministership when her privatisation policy, leading to confrontation with striking miners, and free-market politics transformed Britain in the 1980s. While tributes poured in from various quarters, including from heads of states and even British Labour party members, there were enough voices of dissent too on Twitter:

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POSTED BY Buzz ON Apr 08, 2013 AT 23:23 IST, Edited At: Apr 08, 2013 23:23 IST
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