Opinion
Who Exploited Rakhi Sawant?
The TV channels had already decided that Rakhi was on a publicity hunt. So, they proceeded to ignore the most basic principles of fair reportage and went on to paint her as a publicity-hungry starlet of dubious credibility.
How many of you watched television recently and thought that Rakhi Sawant was making a complete fool of herself? Saw her acting post-facto indignant about something that looked -- from the images shown -- like some consensual party high jinks? I confess, I did. I shrugged my shoulders and damned both her and the TV channels for blowing up what seemed a private non-issue.

That was until a friend of mine in Mumbai e-mailed me some pictures that had appeared in Mumbai Mirror of the actual "kiss" that Rakhi was objecting to. The images clearly show Mika in the middle of a crowd of laughing friends grabbing Rakhi and kissing her violently on the mouth. Rakhi has clearly been taken by surprise and is seen struggling ineffectually, the surrounding crowd laughing. Was Mika overtaken by a moment of ungovernable passion? That would, however unforgivable, still have been understandable. No – the worst excess is this – Mika is looking into the cameras and making sure they get the best angles of him humiliating Rakhi.

That Rakhi is demanding just a public apology from the man is big of her, really big. I would have wanted the man horse-whipped. Mika's expression, his body language, his manner – they scream of just that attitude that allows policemen in our country to rape a girl because she is there and she is alone.

Our TV channels, in their now common style of embarrassing excess, covered the incident ad nauseam. But here's the catch – they had already decided that Rakhi was on a publicity hunt. So, they proceeded to ignore the most basic principles of fair reportage and went on to paint her as a publicity-hungry starlet of dubious credibility. They repeatedly broadcast images that only showed Mika kissing Rakhi in a fairly unobjectionable manner and Rakhi then proceeding to feed him birthday cake… BUT not once was it mentioned that this was not the incident that Rakhi was objecting to; that there was a later incident that clearly shows that the woman did indeed have cause for complaint.

Of course, this righteous anger on Rakhi's behalf might be totally gratuitous. Rakhi and Mika could well have engineered the whole episode for publicity. If that is the case, why not simply deny them the publicity by ignoring the incident? Many of our serious newspapers did not cover it. If the TV channels felt the need to blow it up the way they did by pretending it was a piece of serious news, then it behooves them to say it the way it is. Show viewers all the pictures, not select ones that prop up a pre-decided story angle.

Unfortunately for Rakhi, she is not an articulate woman, a fact the channels exploited. An eminently supercilious Rajdeep Sardesai chose to pillory the woman on his show. Not directly – which one could have respected -- but by insinuation, by implication, and leading questions for which Rakhi was no match. Worse, he again showed the wrong pictures. And oh the hypocrisy: even as he proceeded to milk the incident for all it was worth, a smug Sardesai kept hinting at how truly low he was stooping to cover it on his superior show.

Within the space of that one show – and several other similar ones – the TV channels managed to imply several incredibly unjust things: that Rakhi deserved to be humiliated in public at a friend's birthday bash because of her reputation, the way she dresses, because she chooses to party and have boyfriends. This is the same media that waxes eloquent when some political parties ban Valentine's Day or the lunatic Right fringe targets couples romancing in parks. My question: just how different is this from what the channels did last week?

More important: whether the Rakhis of the world are publicity-hungry or not, it is up to the media to choose how to treat a particular piece of news. We can't have TV anchors bleating about how they have been used – when they can clearly opt not to be.

At best, the TV channels don't exactly cover themselves in glory. The sight of them falling like a pack of hyenas on every morsel of almost-news is nauseating. But if they are going to add distortion to their shrillness, then we have a serious problem.

 
Daily Mail
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Jun 29, 2006 12:00 AM
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I agree with V. Roy's lines that 'That Rakhi is demanding just a public apology from the man is big of her, really big. I would have wanted the man horse-whipped. '
In fact why not go further, stone him and then have him castrated.
Rajeev
Delhi, India
Jun 28, 2006 12:00 AM
8
Well said! whatever her reputation, clothes, the number of boy friends she has, does not give mika any right to behave the way he did. heis lucky that rakhi is demanding an apology and not suing him by the balls.
whats even more disgusting is the surrounding crowd who is laughing at the action. u guys are even worse than that sozzled, wanting to be macho mika. shame!
tmathai1
chennai, India
Jun 25, 2006 12:00 AM
7
The headline initially was Kiss and Yell and showed Rakhie pecking, and it seemed to suggest that she kissed and then started complaining about it..It was just sickening and maddening to see the news being so stupid. The anchor on a TV channel was cross examining like a defense attorney. Wonder if he would have given the same treatment to his sister..
There is no need to idolise her, but is it so tough to treat women as Humans?

Well Said. Nice Article.
gayathri
Chennai, India
Jun 25, 2006 12:00 AM
6
Yes I fully agree. The media is making things worse in this country. Even the respected show like Apki Adalat was really bad. They made her a laughing stock infront of the public. And what worse, even the females in the show seemed to support that since she was dressed like that she deserved it. What dress man, this dress is the most regularly seen in most parties and this guy who was hosting the show, knew it bery well. since he is quite regular in parties too.Are all similarly dressed females kissed forcibly like that. Lets take it to the extreme, does any one have right to kiss forcinly, even the prostitutes? NO NO NO! LETS GET MORE CIVILISED AND START CRITICISING WHAT IS LEGALLY WRONG INSTEAD OF MAKING FUN OF VULNERABLE. Lets mature as a society and start critising such cheap acrs of media too, only then can we feel safe and make our women feel safe.
Thanks
rahul
delhi, India
Jun 23, 2006 12:00 AM
5
prashant,

for once.. agreed completely :-)
bhushan
richmond, United States
Jun 20, 2006 12:00 AM
4
I would like to exploit Rakhi Sawant anyday (with her full permission of course). Still the image of those guys and girls cheering on and enjoying a spectacle is a bit depressing. Pre-historic uncultivated minds in modern designer clothes perhaps?
Prasanth
Cochin, India
Jun 20, 2006 12:00 AM
3
A pretty insightful article that talks about what we knew all along - that something is extremely wrong with the way our media covers issues (or non-issues).

The problem is that the news media, especially the electronic media, puts up a 'holier-than-thou' attitude about how it is their duty to report news and that it is the mandate given by their viewers to them to cover news.

However, all they do is biased reporting while claiming to be objective.

NDTV is a new channel that claims to be the "intellectual", "objective" channel, but is arrogant at best and snobbish at worst. Vikram Chandra & Barkha Dutt positively mock guests on their shows and do not allow them to speak. They speak more than the rest of the panel put together when they are supposed to be "moderators".

Recently on two consecutive days, Sonia Singh, the Managing Editor and anchor at NDTV, instead of reporting news as it is, chose to slide in her own comments (or her channels comments).

One was when Rahul Mahajan's sister said that statements that her brother used drugs were all rumours, Ms Singh added her own comment which went something like "not everything can be dismissed as a rumour that easily"

Another was where Mulayam Singh was talking about how the Congress was targetting people against it through the Income Tax Department. Again, Ms Singh gave her extra comments to the effect "Not many would buy that argument".

As for the Hindi news channels - they are even worse. They go to stupid extents of passing off "dogs celebrating birthdays" as news.

And ofcourse, the views of the page 3 people too were amusing. From what was published in the Indian Express, they too suggested that Rakhi Sawant deserved the treatment she got as she was "getting too familiar with Mika"
Srinivas
Delhi, India
Jun 20, 2006 12:00 AM
2
Seeing the Rakhi sawant episode reminded me of the Jodie Foster movie accused. In accused Jodie foster ends up getting gangraped by a guy and his friends with whom she had previously flirted. The whole movie revolved around how jodie fights for justice and respect from a cynical public and lawyer who are convinced that she had it coming because of her behaviour, dress etc etc.

In the same way, recently in a talk show both the audience and the participants kept implying that rakhi had it coming because of her provocative dress and behaviour and the fact that she didn't slap mika immediately afterwards proved that she was o.k with the kissing. I am sure Mika would have watched the same program because the very next day he was on air dismissing all the allegations and asking Rakhi why she didn't slap him immediately if she was truly offended.

What Mika did in front of the TV camera was abominable and I think Rakhi did the right thing by filing a case against him. However I am really surprised at the reaction of the media, public and also many women on the same. It is time we accept the fact that a way a woman dresses or behaves is no invitation for a man to molest her.

And regarding rajdeep sardesai the less said the better. He is for starters a very ineffective interviewer. The only reason I think he is prominent is because of his good political connections. He does tend to treat women cheaply. In a show on a survey on well liked Mumbaikars, he almost seemed apologetic about the fact that about 7% of Mumbaikars considered Ash as their idol whereas he was ecstatic about whatever little %ges Sharukh or Amitabh got. talk about Male chauvinisim. Media I have found love dissing Aishwarya. Is it because she is a successfull woman in her own right who doesn't give much importance to the men in her life unlike other Sati Savitri heroines who keep praising either their heros or directors if not their boyfriends.

Navdeep Hans
Delhi, India
Jun 20, 2006 12:00 AM
1
What is more disturbing is some Channels tend to act as a judge and a jury pronouncing verdicts even in some cases that are sub-judice.

Also, some leftists in media by their bias reporting try to deliberately incite and sway the common masses.

Two recent examples, Best bakery case: even before judge could prounounce verdict in the case, the way media prounounced its verdict giving prominence to views of Teesta and all people who spewed venom against Hindus. This was done to give an impression that it is Hindus who are always the agressors while all Indian Muslims are always victims. Again when there are bomb blasts, instead on condemning Islamic militancy, leftist media immediately goes into overdrive about how Hindus are tolerant and should not retaliate or even react when holy places like Varanasi are bombed.

Second recent example being media deliberately underplaying the demolition of more then dozen temples in Gujarat but deliberately showing again and again images of destruction of just one 'Dargah' that was built in the middle of the road. Recent reporting on 'Fanaa' controversy is another example of leftist media bias reporting.

It is very worrying to see such bias reporting. Electronic as well as print media seems to have been hijacked by leftists who make it a point to show(on TV)or print(in newspapers and magazines)stories which can at best be described as anti-India and anti-Hindus.

Coming to this incident,TV channels should be also hauled up by the courts for creating an impression that it was a publicity stunt by Rakhi. TV channels are as guilty as Mika and should be pulled up by the courts.

I am appalled at the hint by some channels that becoz Rakhi was dressed in a particular way and gave a peck on Mikha's cheek, according to some channels she 'asked for it' or 'deserved it'. No,the fact is Mikha did an unlawful thing and media should have concentrated just on his wrong act rather then hinting it was also partly Rakhi's fault. A clear signal has to go out that no man has the right to forcibily take liberties with a woman unless the act has womans 100% consent to it. If he does anything forcibly as Mika did, he should be punished by law and Courts should also haul up some TV channels for such faulty reporting.

Abhimanyu
Mumbai, India
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