T. Narayan
Mothers with new-born sons in Dhanduha village, Nawanshahr district, Punjab. Only one girl was born here in the last 6 months.
punjab
Death Becomes Her
Punjab has the worst sex ratio in the country. Female foeticide is at an alarming high. The worst culprits are the affluent.
opinion
Long ago, girls were killed to protect them from Muslim invaders. Now, it's dowry.
Khushwant Singh
interview
The deputy commissioner of Nawanshahr, who has started a drive to check female foeticide, thinks it is possible to make a difference with enforcement of the law.
Outlook

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Kulwinder Kaur Housewife:  "I have two daughters and my mother-in-law is threatening to get another wife for her son if I don't have a boy. I got an abortion done last year when the scan showed it was a female foetus. This time I have been lucky."

Simran College Lecturer:  "I have one girl and cannot afford to have another daughter.

 
 
"I was shocked to discover that there has been a sharp increase in female foeticide in Punjab. This is a blot on the name of a valiant and gallant people." Manmohan Singh, Prime Minster
 
 
It's so difficult to marry them off as boys demand hefty dowries. I have undergone five abortions at a private nursing home as all of them were female foetuses. I may not be able to conceive again."

Kashmiri Devi Housewife:  "I've two daughters, after which I had four abortions because the foetuses were female. Now, I want to have a son of my own so that he can take care of us in our old age."

Satinder Kaur Wife of a landed farmer:  "I have one daughter, and I know that if I don't have a son soon my status in the family will come down. Femicide is not an issue in our family. I got my last pregnancy aborted, it helped me to limit our family size. Otherwise I could be saddled with a whole lot of girls until I get a boy."

Satnam Singh Sarpanch, Nai Majara:  "No matter what people might say, at heart everyone wants a son. Imagine the plight of a couple who has two daughters in a row. Life in Punjab is cruel for those with too many daughters."

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Look hard and you won't find anything out of the ordinary in Dhanduha village in Punjab's Nawanshahr district. But anganwadi worker Harminder Kaur knows well the foul secrets her village keeps. As she produces her register, which maintains a record of all births which take place in the village, she says, "I've been telling these women not to go in for female foeticide as it's against the law and bodes ill for our society." Words which most anganwadi workers and health department officials in rural Punjab can mouth in their sleep.

 
 
"We are seeing an utter failure on the part of the government to criminalise female foeticide. Although a law is in place, it is not being implemented." Brinda Karat, CPI(M) Politburo member
 
 
Dhanduha's register shows that of the seven babies born in the last six months, there were six boys and just one girl. In the last one year, against 12 boys only three girls were born, and in the last five years, 34 baby boys were born as against only 18 girls. A sex ratio of just 529:1000!

But it's not fair to point fingers at Dhanduha. Everyone in the district knows of Nai Majara, the village where an on-the-spot survey conducted by deputy commissioner Krishan Kumar a month ago, of children in the 0-1 age group, came up with a ratio of 437:1000. A local NGO staged an instant demonstration in the village but its sarpanch Satnam Singh wrings his hands in despair. "It's such a shame for our village, but what can I do? This happens everywhere." Sure it does. And much more than anyone previously imagined.

Gobindpura is a village just off the main road to Jalandhar, with pretty bungalows built with money sent home by its expatriate population. With its fields of yellow mustard, the wheat crop just beginning to ripen and the juicy sugarcane ready for harvesting, Gobindpura presents a picture of agrarian prosperity. A prosperity which many feel is responsible for the village's fast falling sex ratio. Out of the 24 baby boys born in the last one year, the village produced just 10 girls. A sex ratio of 416:1000. A few years ago it was slightly better, at 636:1000.

Nawanshahr district's gory secrets began tumbling out when Krishan Kumar took over as the deputy commissioner in May last year. Kumar took it upon himself to improve the female sex ratio of his district to a respectable level. Nine months into the campaign and Nawanshahr has uncovered a sordid story of rampant female foeticide which goes on with the active participation of the state's health department officials. It all began when Kumar initiated a survey of all children from 0-6 years in the 477 villages of the district, to gauge the extent of the problem in his area. It turned out that there are 16 villages where the ratio is in the range of 500:1000. And 65 more villages recorded a ratio of below 700:1000. These are prosperous villages in the state's Doaba belt. Mud houses are a rarity in these parts, and grand mansions built by NRIs or even prosperous villagers are common. Incidentally, Nawanshahr had emerged as one of Punjab's better districts according to the sex ratio mapped in the 2001 census, in which it stood at 808:1000. By 2004, it had fallen to 775.


Manjit Kaur with her husband, daughter, mother-in-law who had an abortion at the nursing home

Kumar suspects the situation in the four towns of the district, still to be surveyed, would be much worse because of greater accessibility to scanning centres and clinics. Villages like Sekhopur, Kador, Sultanpur, Sajawalpur, Jatpura, Kherevewal and many others like them, all with a sex ratio below 700:1000, are a sad reflection of a chilling trend which, despite the 'efforts' of the government machinery to enforce the Pre-Natal Diagnostic Techniques (Prohibition of Sex Selection) (PNDT) Act, refuses to ebb.

When statistics tabulated by the 2001 census came out a few years ago, the country sat up and took note of the dismal sex ratio which the prosperous, green revolution states of Punjab (793:1000) and Haryana (820:1000) threw up. The government framed laws to deter would-be mothers from tearing out female foetuses from their wombs. The state machinery launched awareness drives, and researchers enthusiastically set off for the villages with satchels filled with questionnaires. But the mothers continued doing what they must in the gender-biased society which they inhabit. At Dhanduha, a clutch of mothers and pregnant women look the other way when asked whether sex determination testing is common in their village. The village midwife or 'dai', Jeeto, is the only one who speaks up. "It's quite simple. They all go to Banga (a nearby town) to get tests done. Most girl foetuses are simply aborted."

Everywhere in Nawanshahr, people talk about a well- entrenched network of educated 'dais', nurses, midwives and doctors, encompassing private practioners and those from the government's health department, who facilitate violations of the act with impunity. Paramjit Kaur, the child development project officer of Banga block, admits candidly, "Health department officials, particularly the auxiliary nurses and midwives (ANMs), lady health visitors (LHVs) supervisors and doctors are deeply involved in the business because these are the people who are intimately connected with pregnant women as part of their duties." A recently detected case of female foeticide in Naura village is revealing. Manjit Kaur and her husband Santokh Singh have been hauled up for allegedly aborting their female foetus at a nursing home in Hoshiarpur. Since Nawanshahr had become too hot to conduct a medical termination practice (MTP), because of the deputy commissioner's aggressive drive against female foeticide, Manjit simply went to a relative's place in nearby Hoshiarpur district and got her pregnancy terminated at Shashi Nursing Home and Scan Centre. Investigations have revealed that the nursing home is being run by a doctor couple, where wife Dr Shashi Bala is a former government doctor and husband Dr Gurdial Singh is none else than the district family planning officer in Hoshiarpur. What's worse, Dr Gurdial also heads the district committee constituted to enforce the PNDT Act! A case has duly been registered against the nursing home. But it's common knowledge that government doctors in Punjab run private nursing homes and clinics on the sly in the name of their relatives or spouses. A sullen Manjit had only this much to say, "This is our fate. What can we do? Luckily the village is supporting us."


Students at a rally against female foeticide in Nawanshahr

A few months into the campaign and Krishan Kumar realised that he needed to do some tough talking with the private and government doctors of the district. The meeting opened a can of worms. Private doctors accused doctors and staff of the government health department of indulging in large-scale sex determination scans and female foeticide. Says Dr Gurmej Singh Saini, a lady gynaecologist in private practice, "As vice-president of the Nawanshahr chapter of the Indian Medical Association (IMA), I pointed a finger at the wife of chief medical officer (CMO) Dr Kuldip Kumar, who is working as a radiologist at the government civil hospital at Nawanshahr." Dr Saini alleged at the meeting that the woman in question conducts sex determination scans and then refers those desirous of undergoing abortions to dais, ANMs and doctors known to her, for a commission. Dr Saini also alleged that she is being pressurised by the CMO to conduct abortions on women referred by his wife, and that her nursing home was sealed for two months on false charges when she refused to do so. Reacting to the allegations against him and his wife, Dr Kuldip Kumar told Outlook, "Let them prove their allegations, then I will see. They are making false allegations because their business is suffering due to our enforcement."

In villages located close to towns like Nai Majara, it's easy for pregnant women to catch a bus to town and get a scan done. But more remote villages are serviced by nurses, and dais, who scour the villages for pregnant women and work either as middlewomen for nursing homes or do the abortions themselves. The government and private nurses are generally girls from the local villages, and officials see a link between the presence of a nurse or trained dai in a village to its low sex ratio. These nurses or dais charge anything from Rs 500 to Rs 3,000 for an abortion.

The civil surgeon of Nawanshahr, Dr Dilip Kumar, estimates that nursing homes charge anything between Rs 5,000 and Rs 10,000 for a package which involves scanning the foetus and conducting an MTP if it's a female. The middlewomen pocket a hefty commission for every case brought by them. The PNDT Act has only pushed up the price—a sex scan now costs Rs 3,000 or so, as against the Rs 400 which a normal ultrasound costs.

The entry of untrained dais and nurses into the female foeticide business is also because abortion techniques have changed and now become much simpler. The earlier invasive surgical techniques for abortion, such as suction aspiration or syringe methods are fast becoming obsolete. Popular among Punjab's army of trained and untrained medics is the trend of chemical abortion wherein M cradil, a dye, is injected into the uterus which leads to intra-uterine death of the foetus, followed by its expulsion. Some prefer to give two injections of Prospadil, a hormonal formulation which leads to uterine contractions and expulsion.


A street performance on female foeticide

Even with the kind of abysmal figures which Nawanshahr has turned up, the district has some good news to report too. The entire state is watching with wonder the results of the rigorous anti-female foeticide drive undertaken by the district administration. Results of strict enforcement have begun coming in places like Khothran already. According to a government assessment in 2004, the ratio in the 0-6 years group in this village was 787:1000. Strict monitoring had increased it to 904:1000 by the end of 2005. Satisfying yes, but Kumar feels that even the better villages cannot be taken for granted because the socio-economic conditions which led to the problem in the first place remain. As Channan Singh at Nai Majara says: "It's all very well for the DC to launch a campaign, but will he help us to marry our daughters when the time comes? Boys nowadays ask for huge dowries. If it's an nri groom the amount doubles."

The emergence of the two-child norm and even the trend of one male child preferred by rural landed families nowadays are other factors encouraging female foeticide. Dr Renuka Dagar, a senior fellow with the Chandigarh-based Institute of Development and Communication, studied the phenomenon in 2003 and found that in one village of Bhatinda district, 40 per cent of the couples over 35 years of age had only one offspring, a male. With land holdings shrinking, people don't want too many children or even too many sons. Ensuring that the one child that they have is a male, she points out, is one more reason for the increase in female foeticide.


A couple at the Baba Budha shrine near Jalandhar seeking a male child

It's not surprising to find that the overall sex ratio for Punjab is dipping further. According to data from the latest sample registration system of the office of the registrar general, the overall sex ratio at birth (considered a more accurate indicator of female foeticide) for Punjab is now 776:1000 (in 2001 it was 793:1000). In Nawanshahr district alone, the ratio fell from 810:1000 in 2001 to 775:1000 in 2004. Again, a state-wise analysis done recently by an Indo-Canadian team, which appeared in the latest issue of British medical bible Lancet, has found that if the first birth in a family is a female child, the figures for Punjab show a dismal sex ratio of 614:1000. This gets worse in urban areas, where it goes down to 560:1000. Described as the first systematic and scientific study on female foeticide, it was carried out by Prabhat Jha, formerly of the World Bank who is now with St Michael's Hospital, University of Toronto, and Dr Rajesh Kumar of the Post-Graduate Institute of Medical Education and Research in Chandigarh. Dr Rajesh Kumar observes that their study reveals a cruel paradox: "Since our study shows higher incidence of female foeticide in well-off and better educated segments of society, we feel that Punjab registers the lowest sex ratio because of the relative prosperity of people here. This signifies that as prosperity levels go up, the problem will worsen in the years to come."

As for enforcement, out of the 77 cases registered in the last four years under the PNDT Act, there have been only two convictions so far—measure that against the estimated 10 million foeticides in 20 years. Health department officials say convictions are difficult to come by because there are no complainants. Consequently, evidence is difficult to get because both the patient and doctor have a nexus. A convenient nexus, which is fast catapulting Punjab towards sociological disaster.

opinion
Long ago, girls were killed to protect them from Muslim invaders. Now, it's dowry.
Khushwant Singh
interview
The deputy commissioner of Nawanshahr, who has started a drive to check female foeticide, thinks it is possible to make a difference with enforcement of the law.
Outlook
 
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Feb 24, 2006 12:00 AM
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This goes to show that despite our so called advancements and journey into a 'modern' era, our thinking and education remain steeped in the stone age. The trauma of women depicted in this article is not confined to rual and affluent Punjab only,scores of women nation wide are subjected to the worst forms of harrasment and nobody seems to even notice it. How many times have we not heard from fathers that daughters are a major responsibility and they have to be married off irrespectiv of whether the girl likes it or not. How many money hungry, sex-hungry men have we not heard of who take unscrupulous advantage of this so called 'helplessness' of the girl's parents and dish out the worst kinds of treatment that is disgusting to say the least. What gets reported in the media is only a tip of the tip of a huge ice berg. The only solution to this problem is to 'educate' ourselves about treating a fellow human being, specially a woman. We may be PhDs, MBAs, doctors , lawyers, but if we do not know how to treat and respect our fellow human beings, then we will just become a society of the 'civil illiterate'.
vijay shankar
Bangalore, India
Feb 24, 2006 12:00 AM
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>> You are still a traitor….

That I admit. I'd also add "carrying the white man's burden" bit as well.

>>..probably paid from a slush fund financed by all the aforementioned.

how I wish! I wonder why people think its too easy to make money this way.

>> On the other hand, the guys don’t have a chance due to being either uninteresting or unhygienic.

To be fair, quite a few (though still a minority) here seem to have paired up with non-Indians. Other than on a few factors, I don't see the Indian men as being significantly worse off. (I can hear you arguing that a few is enuff..but such is the world)

cheers
prakash
Sydney, Australia
Feb 24, 2006 12:00 AM
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Prakash writes:

>>Now, how does one resolve the apparent contradiction of a society in which many venerate women and the many instances of female infanticide/foeticide? Is the former just one of the many façades erected to hide the patriarchy and rigid hierarchy? The good omen is that we are recognizing it as a problem and trying to do something about it.

Nobody venerates women in India…..other than with words. As they say, talk is cheap. If there's one thing we got a lot of, it's talk.

>>Our country works like a well oiled machine with many of us dutifully doing our parts – placing many hurdles for our girls, paying/receiving dowries, thinking about our daughters’ marriage as soon as they are born and at the same time letting our sons be carefree - without realizing what we are contributing to. Thus, I think all of us are responsible for the killings that are happening.

I generally limit criminal guilt to those who dispense rat poison or arrange for the “kitchen accident.”

>>Also, I think we need fresh genes – I’d like to see more of our women marrying non-Indians and our men trying to woo outsiders (?). That’s guaranteed to get some fresh thoughts into our society and would challenge status quo.

Our women will always be a hit; some for their verve, some for their brains and most for their beauty. On the other hand, the guys don’t have a chance due to being either uninteresting or unhygienic.

>>Statutory declaration: The perspective above is presented only with a view to improve ourselves. I am not employed by any missionary, republican, commie or womens lib organization.

It wouldn’t matter. You are still a traitor….probably paid from a slush fund financed by all the aforementioned.

welcome back.
Old Mac
Wonderville, United States
Feb 24, 2006 12:00 AM
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Now, how does one resolve the apparent contradiction of a society in which many venerate women and the many instances of female infanticide/foeticide? Is the former just one of the many façades erected to hide the patriarchy and rigid hierarchy? The good omen is that we are recognizing it as a problem and trying to do something about it.

Our country works like a well oiled machine with many of us dutifully doing our parts – placing many hurdles for our girls, paying/receiving dowries, thinking about our daughters’ marriage as soon as they are born and at the same time letting our sons be carefree - without realizing what we are contributing to. Thus, I think all of us are responsible for the killings that are happening.

It’s unfair, most agree, but that’s the way it is. The few who rebel are branded as not being the family types. At least the current generation families need to start thinking of valuing ideas more than age and fairness versus tradition. I see this happening in an increasing way and I am hopeful that the next generation families will be more democratic and liberal.

Also, I think we need fresh genes – I’d like to see more of our women marrying non-Indians and our men trying to woo outsiders (?). That’s guaranteed to get some fresh thoughts into our society and would challenge status quo.

Statutory declaration: The perspective above is presented only with a view to improve ourselves. I am not employed by any missionary, republican, commie or womens lib organization.

regards
prakash
Sydney, Australia
Feb 23, 2006 12:00 AM
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Like the Jessica Lal judgment story, this is another very clear indictment of how far India has to go in the global development stakes. Until our culture values women as highly as it does men and until the government moves beyond the mouthing of platitudes about this problem, no amount of SENSEX records or GDP growth rates will disguise the fact that our country is socially backward and has a very long way to go.
Rustam Roy
London, UK
Feb 22, 2006 12:00 AM
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i appreciate outlook for bringing out a story of the real color of india and its better you guys concentrate on these kind of things and bring them out of the closet rather than writing about medical tourism and IT development which a real thinking man who cares for india can never relate to.first it was tamil nadu which had a very high female foeticide ratio and now it the other state. but what becomes clear is the fact that this problem is prevelant all over india.till someone finds the same problem existing in some other state it will reamain in the closet.instead of analysing the ratio and trying to punish those who do that the government should analyse why peopler do that and what can be done. trying tp punish people who commit these kind of crimes rather than finding a solution for why they do that is like taking a headache pill for tumor..it may give relief but it would only aggravate the condition more. guys goota think about this when an young 25 year old student can think so logically i wonder why matured guys who claim to have passed IAS or IPS or for that case whatever difficult exams the indian government conducts to check their intellectual ability and put them in to solve these kind of problems think logically and come out with solution???.
babu
canberra, Australia
Feb 21, 2006 12:00 AM
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I meant "That will teach *these* murdering bastards".
harsh
charlotte, United States
Feb 21, 2006 12:00 AM
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Whats disgusting is that these same people talk about "Our Indian Culture" which is thousands of years old...But at the same time they have no remorse or guilt aborting a foetus because it is a female. I say, they should continue to do so! Becuase they will dig their own grave this way. After a while all you will see is boys everywhere and 10 boys will have to compete with each other for 1 girl.They might even end up giving a hefty dowry to the GIRL's parents in order to get married. That will teach this murdering bastards!

In our so-called culture the parents seem to be very very selfish. They want to have a boy so that the boy can support them when they get old!Then they want thier kid to study hard and get good grades so that the parents can brag about their child! So its really all about them and not about their child, be it a boy or a girl!How f#$ked up is that?
harsh
charlotte, United States
Feb 20, 2006 12:00 AM
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dowry se jyada eve-teasing problem hai india mai.
it is a tension on parents.
nits
nashville, USA
Feb 20, 2006 12:00 AM
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It is heartening to know that at least in some districts, with the efforts of the anti-female feticide drive undertaken by the district administration, the abysmal sex-ratio has come down to some level of sanity. But female infanticide is just a symptom; the actual malaise is much deep rooted. It might sound outrageous, but in the currently prevailing atmosphere in rural India, it is better to snuff out the life of female child before even she is born, than to let her grow up in an extremely biased and male dominated society.
Whether we like it or not, lets face it, raising a girl child in India is much more difficult than a boy! Dowry IS a truth, which even the most affluent and educated of Indians find difficult to negate. The way girls are brought up in India, they need protection all through their lives. Girls are still not considered worthy enough to inherit property nor carry the name of their parents through to the next generation. It is this medieval mindset which needs to be changed, if we really want to end this shameful practice once and for all.
Gautam Goswami
Bangalore, India
Feb 20, 2006 12:00 AM
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Here the collective thinking is to be blamed. If asked for a choice, parent's would rather give dowry than an equal share of property to girls, as it would be a one time get-it-over-with expense. Even Laxmi Mittal would much rather spend a few crores on his daughter's wedding than share the business or property with her.

Any property given to girls is considered as given to an outsider (girl's husband) and therefore is unthinkable. There are sayings and folklores that reinforce this attitude.
"Jod-jod mar jayenge aur maal jamai khayenge" (we'll die putting all the money together but son-in-laws will enjoy it) is most common fear of an average indian.

Only when girls are raised as capable of taking care of family business and property, will the situation change. With all the social and religious rules dictating that girls are paraya dhan, this seems to be an uphill task.
Politically Incorrect
Mumbai, India
Feb 20, 2006 12:00 AM
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“No wonder China explores business opportunity out of this misfortune also and starts exporting Inexpensive, Readymade, Use & Throw ‘Made In China’ Brides in future.”
Rajneesh Batra
New Delhi, India
Feb 20, 2006 12:00 AM
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Not only in Punjab, even in many places in rest of India female foeticide is happening in a large scale. Even womanhood is responsible for this heinous crime equally alongwith men. The main reason is dowry system in India. Huge expenses for a daughter’s marriage is also one of the reason, so they afraid to have a girl child. If our country want to eradicate this problem people should have a small family of one child irrespective of boy or girl. So the parents can take care of single child by giving good education and better future. So family planning is a must. Another thing is a revolution should come and awaken our younger generation. The younger generation of males and females should marry each other out of love and not of parent’s choice. By this way dowry can’t be asked between lovers, so dowry system can go, along with the evils of casteism, religion, economic barriers and linguistic differences. Forced marriages did lot of evil in society, marriage out of love can do betterment of the society. So younger generation, study more, make good career, love more, have love marriage, celebrate lover’s day and also learn karate and other self-saving methods so you can hit in the balls of thugs next time, when they disturb lover’s day celebrations.
shivkumar
Mumbai, India
Feb 20, 2006 12:00 AM
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The scarier part is that the Govt. and many women's organizations do not seem to be much bothered about this crisis.

The problem, why women get mostly treated as second class citizens, I think lies mainly in our culture. In our culture, boys are supposed to look after their parents in their old age whereas girls are considered property of their future in laws and as such of no use to the parents. Also as per our tradition only the boy can light the pyre of the dead parent. All this obviously makes the role of a boy more important in a family than that of the girl.

This leads to discrimination right from childhood where the parents invest more on the boy who they believe will be more useful to them in the future than the girl. Somehow this also got translated into social prestige where it was considered prestigious to have at least one boy child.

The only way to stem this problem and prevent it is by enforcing stringent laws to prevent the same and be encouraging women participation in rituals that were till now considered male domain.

Finally only women can help in erradicating female foesticide. By their silence and passive support to these activities, they only harm themselves and their ilk more.


Navdeep Hans
Delhi, India
Feb 20, 2006 12:00 AM
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The laws are simply a text unless they are implemented. And lay implementation is not the sole responsibility of the legal system like courts, police only. It is a collective moral and ethical responsibility on all of the people who come to know about a crime of this nature. When a lady goes for abortion of a female feticide the doctor should play the role of law implementer and inform the required authorities of this mal practice. But at the same time the doctor might have done his job but the life of the lady who came to him for abortion would be in total shamble as her husband might marry someone else, she might get divorced etc. Therefore as with all the problems this also boils down to educating the people about this sinful act and more than that to develop an environment where the girls are safe and secure and are not considered a liability on the parents. This type of environment will take decades to come through and a persistent program like road shows, TV serials, messages by social icons etc. can go a mile in getting it.
Yugal Joshi
NewDelhi, India
Feb 19, 2006 12:00 AM
8
and to be honest.. dowry is not the only issue.
In much of india, especially north india, rampant eve-teasing is a everyday affair that most of the women have to put up with. all that indian culture.. respect women bull**** ..is just a hogwash.
who wants to bring up a girl in such a environment? but tell this to our politicos like george fernandez, and you get a pat reply.."rapes happen everywhere"!!
nits
nashville, USA
Feb 19, 2006 12:00 AM
7
Not fair to blame this one on islam. The rajputs of Rajasthan have been sworn enemies of muslims rulers in India, yet they used to kill their daughters...after birth! The male dominance is a trait of most cultures in world, irrespective of religion.

Funny thing is that indian urban people keep repeating that girls are same as boys, but very few of them actually believe it.
kunal
denver, usa
Feb 19, 2006 12:00 AM
6
"yatra naryastu poojyante ramante tatra devataha"( the gods reside there where women are worshiped and respected)so said our scriptures . modern india seems to have forgotten these and many more such facets of indian culture. why can not those policing our morals by protesting against the valentines day take up this issue?
ameetbhuvan
bhubaneswar, India
Feb 19, 2006 12:00 AM
5
wow sabena..amazing! Blame it on the rain instead!
BTW, punjab has one of the lowest % of muslims in india.
nits
nashville, USA
Feb 19, 2006 12:00 AM
4
Sabena says, "Islam's male dominance brought this problem into Indian culture. This is why the girl ratio is worst in Punjab, especially among sikhs, where Islam's influence was highest."

If that is so, the girl/boy ratio should be worst among Muslims.
Ghulam Y Faruki
New York, United States
Feb 19, 2006 12:00 AM
3
Islam's male dominance brought this problem into Indian culture. This is why the girl ratio is worst in Punjab, especially among sikhs, where Islam's influence was highest.
Sabena Dhingra
princeton, United States
Feb 19, 2006 12:00 AM
2
Kunal writes:

>>Now, these people are filthy rich, and there was no pressure from my friend's parents as such.

Goes to one of my broad themes: economic poverty is dwarfed by moral poverty.
Old Mac
Wonderville, United States
Feb 19, 2006 12:00 AM
1
This is a very disturbing trend indeed. Few months ago, one of my closest friend's wife also got an abortion because they didn't want a second girl. Now, these people are filthy rich, and there was no pressure from my friend's parents as such. But the husband and wife wanted only two kids, and the second one had to be a boy. I could not believe when I heard it. I approve of abortions in India if the pregnancy is accidental and the couple don't want another child altogether...but my friend's wife was pregnent again within couple of months...and this time it was a boy so no problem! Disgusting!!
kunal
denver, usa
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